Boys don’t cry, or so an old song says. As much as it seems unmanly for you to cry when your girlfriend has broken up with you and you may want her back, you have to recognize the fact that you have feelings too. And these feelings were hurt, probably badly, when she dumped you and walked out of your life.
But life does go on, even without her. And it will indeed take some time to get over the heartache she caused you, or the bruising she did to your ego. The important thing is for you to go on with your life and take a new shot at love, either with your ex-girlfriend or with someone new.
Of course, the thought of spending another day without your former love may feel unbearable just now. It is definitely because the heartbreak may still be fresh for you. Acknowledge the fact that your heart has been broken and find something to do that will get your mind off her. It will make the pain feel a lot easier for you, and even help you get over her.
Take this time you have to yourself to rediscover who you are. You may not have her in your arms right now, but you at least have yourself. Love yourself when the woman that you love has left you.
You can try to reconnect with your old buddies and hang out with them. They would definitely be glad to have you around and do stuff with. You can go on a trip; a new adventure can set your mind and your heart at ease as well as help you forget. You can also take up a new hobby.
You may choose to make the rounds of the singles’ route, but with your heartache still fresh, it may not be a good idea for you right now. If there is anything more painful than going through a heartbreak, that would be falling in love on the rebound and then breaking up after it. Give your heart a rest and just enjoy yourself. Try not to get into a new commitment so soon after your breakup.
After you feel that the pain and the hurt have already subsided, you may find it the right time to see if you can win your ex-girlfriend back. That is, if you still want her back in your life.
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