If you have just broken up with your ex-girlfriend, there is a chance that you may change your mind and realize that you should not have let her go. You may think that the breakup was a mistake and you would do all the begging in the world that you can do in order to get her back.
But would begging work? In all likelihood, it would not. Women, especially those who have been hurt greatly by a breakup, hate it when their ex-boyfriends continue to bother them with pleas for them to forgive and start anew.
Do you want your ex-girlfriend back in your arms? All the begging in the world will not work to your favor. What you should do is to make use of steps to get your ex girlfriend back that are the exact opposite of begging: playing hard to get.
Reflect on Your Situation
The first step that you should make towards your strategy of winning your ex-girlfriend back is to take the time to think things through. This will clear your head and sort your feelings out. By the time you are done with it, you will be able to formulate a more logical plan to make your ex-girlfriend fall in love with you again.
Break Off the Habit of Calling Her
Are you still calling your ex-girlfriend after the two of you have fallen apart? Stop doing that at once. She has become accustomed to you begging her to come back to you and your requests have begun to fall on deaf ears. If you stop calling her, she will suddenly find it odd and wonder if you have found someone new. Since people tend to realize how much they care for someone after totally losing them, she may begin to see how wonderful you were to her when you were still together.
Improve Your Appearance and Attitude
It is possible that the breakup left you so depressed and devastated that you have begun to neglect your appearance. You have put on a few pounds, probably a beer belly and a beard. This time, you have to start pulling yourself together. If you want her to look at you again, you have to look pleasing in her eyes. Start exercising again, change your hairstyle, and probably even your wardrobe.
Also, when you see her or get to talk to her by chance, show her that she does not mean anything to you anymore, even if deep inside you are shaking at the sight of her. If she thinks you have moved on, she will be challenged by the notion that she is not the apple of your eye anymore and chase after you.
Play Games with Her
This could backfire on you, but you should know that a little jealousy would not hurt, as long as it is just a little. Go out on a few casual dates just to show her that you are available to other women, but not to her. Not only would this be fun, but it would also make her eyes turn green. Be sure that those dates and flirtations are only casual ones, though. Do not get into anything serious.
Sometimes, playing hard to get is the only way to attract an ex-girlfriend’s attention. Play your cards wisely and you may end up with your old flame again.
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