When you have just broken up with your ex-girlfriend, chances are that you are thinking of ways that you could have handled the situation better. You could also be thinking that if you had acted in another way, you may have prevented the breakup.
But there is no use crying over spilled milk now. She broke up with you and that is that. And before you go begging, you should know that no matter how many times you beg her to come back to you, she will only ignore you. Women are emotionally fragile and they tend not to see reason when they are hurt.
So, if you want to win your ex-girlfriend back, what should you do?
1. Take a break. Take advantage of this time alone that your breakup gave you. Use this time to clear your head, to examine how you have been doing things and to make the necessary changes. If you feel like it, go out and have fun with your male buddies. Stay away from women for a while.
2. Examine your heart. After a couple of months of not seeing any woman, especially your ex-girlfriend, take a look at your feelings and determine if you are still in love with her and you would want to be together with her again. If not, just move on with your life and start seeing other women.
3. Take things slowly. If you have decided that you are still in love with your ex-girlfriend and wooing her once again is more than worth it, go ahead and woo her. Just take things slow this time. Reconnect with her and be her friend, but do not start with gushing about how much you love her and how desperate you are to be with her. That is not going to work, ever.
4. Look for signs. Once you have reconnected with her and have spent some time being just friends with her, try to keep your eyes peeled for signs that she is still interested in you. If you are confident enough to think that she is still in love with you, then pop the question of whether she wants you back or not.
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