Be Friends With Your Ex-Girlfriend to Win Her back

Breakups are never pleasant. Ugly words may have been exchange and feelings were definitely put through the wringer. But after the pain has subsided, you may still find yourself wanting to get back together with your ex-girlfriend.

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The thing in this situation is that while you may want your ex-girlfriend to be a couple again with you, actually getting it done may be a lot trickier than you may have expected. In trying to win your ex-girlfriend back, you should cope first with your breakup, sort yourself out, and handle the matter of possible reconciliation with care.

Here are tips on how you can do this more effectively.

1. Reflect and figure out what happened. Take some time to think about how things went on between the two of you. There is always a reason why breakups happen, and if you want to get your ex-girlfriend back, you should find out what caused her to turn her back on you. This is very important because in this way, you would be able to stop this mistake from happening again.

2. Apologize for what happened. Once you have figured out what exactly came down between you and your ex-girlfriend, the next thing you should do to increase your chances of winning her back is to tell her you are sorry for what happened. Apologizing to her may cause her to soften up a bit and open her heart a little to you.

3. Win her trust once more. When your ex-girlfriend has found the heart to forgive you, it does not mean that you can enter into a romantic relationship with her at once. She may have doubts about you, so what you should do is to give her space and be patient. Just be there as her friend, without any pressure on making her love you again.

4. Revive your social life. While you should not give up on your chance to get your ex-girlfriend back in your arms, you should give yourself the chance to see other women as well. Or at least you should hang out with your buddies and have a social life. In this way, you are not exerting any pressure on your ex-girlfriend to take you back. She may even get jealous of the time you spend with other girls.

5. Move on. Another way of showing your ex-girlfriend that she is under no pressure to take you back, you should let her see how much her presence does not cause you pain anymore. If she sees that you are fine on your own, she may start to look at you in a new light – as someone who is more reasonable and more mature.

Eventually, once your new friendship with your ex-girlfriend has reached a state where the two of you have become comfortable in each other’s presence, ask her what went wrong with the two of you to have caused the breakup. Just ask it in a nonchalant, even joking, manner. Two things can happen here. One is that she will tell you exactly what went wrong and that she is willing to set that mistake aside to begin again with you. The other is that she will say that she is happier with the two of you being just friends. If you still have hopes of getting back together with her at this point, you will get your answer here.